Routledge's Manual of Etiquette by George Routledge
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disputants, are tiresome to the last degree to all others. You should
always endeavour to prevent the conversation from dwelling too long upon one topic. Religion is a topic which should never be introduced in society. It is the one subject on which persons are most likely to differ, and least able to preserve temper. Never interrupt a person who is speaking. It has been aptly said that "if you interrupt a speaker in the middle of his sentence, you act almost as rudely as if, when walking with a companion, you were to thrust yourself before him, and stop his progress." To listen well is almost as great an art as to talk well. It is not enough _only_ to listen. You must endeavour to seem interested in the conversation of others. It is considered extremely ill-bred when two persons whisper in society, or converse in a language with which all present are not familiar. If you have private matters to discuss, you should appoint a proper time and place to do so, without paying others the ill compliment of excluding them from your conversation. If a foreigner be one of the guests at a small party, and does not understand English sufficiently to follow what is said, good breeding demands that the conversation shall be carried on in his own language. If at a dinner-party, the same rule applies to those at his end of the table. If upon the entrance of a visitor you carry on the thread of a |
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