Perfect Behavior; a guide for ladies and gentlemen in all social crises by Donald Ogden Stewart
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Scotland, discovered that the prolonged distillation of common
barley resulted in the creation of an amber-colored liquid which, when taken internally, produced a curious and not unpleasant effect. This discovery had--and still has--a remarkable effect upon the celebration of the marriage rite. Gradually there grew up around the wedding a number of customs. With the Haig brothers' discovery of Scotch whiskey began, as a matter of course, the institution of the "bachelor dinner." "Necessity is the mother of invention," and exactly twelve years after the first "bachelor dinner" came the discovery of bicarbonate of soda. From that time down to the present day the history of the etiquette of weddings has been that of an increasing number of intricate forms and ceremonies, each age having added its particular bit of ritual. The modern wedding may be said to be, therefore, almost an "Outline of History" itself. ANNOUNCING THE ENGAGEMENT LET us begin, first of all, with the duties of one of the minor characters at a wedding --the Groom. Suppose that you are an eligible young man named Richard Roe, who has just become "engaged" to a young lady named Dorothy Doe. If you really intend to "marry the girl," it is customary that some formal announcement of the engagement be made, for which you must have the permission of Miss Dorothy and her father. It is not generally difficult to become engaged to most girls, but it will surprise you to discover how hard it is to get the young lady |
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