Our Deportment - Or the Manners, Conduct and Dress of the Most Refined Society by John H. Young
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UNIVERSAL INTRODUCTIONS.
While the habit of universal introductions is a bad one, there are many men in cities and villages who are not at all particular whom they introduce to each other. As a general rule, a man should be as careful about the character of the person he introduces to his friends, as he is of him whose notes he would endorse. THE INTRODUCTION OF A GENTLEMAN TO A LADY. A gentleman should not be introduced to a lady, unless her permission has been previously obtained, and no one should ever be introduced into the house of a friend, except permission is first granted. Such introductions, however, are frequent, but they are improper, for a person cannot know that an introduction of this kind will be agreeable. If a person asks you to introduce him to another, or a gentleman asks to be introduced to a lady, and you find the introduction would not be agreeable to the other party, you may decline on the grounds that you are not sufficiently intimate to take that liberty. When a gentleman is introduced to a lady, both bow slightly, and the gentleman opens conversation. It is the place of the one who is introduced to make the first remark. INFORMAL INTRODUCTION. It is not strictly necessary that acquaintanceship should wait a formal introduction. Persons meeting at the house of a common friend may |
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